Spouses:
Every spouse needs to know if there is anything bothering their mate. You both need to know there is not any subject you could not approch one another with. In fact if you don't, over time this will fester in your relationship. It will be like an open wound with a scap that won't heal.
You both need to approch difficult subjects with the right words, as not to be critical.
Even I need to remind myself of this, as I can be to critial. Then Mike gets defensive.
Whatever you have to say, say it with love and compassion for the other person. Everybody has to know if they are doing something that offends or hurts their spouse, or we would never change. This will stop the growth of your marriage.
Judy Cipriano
wife of over 25 years.
Every spouse needs to know if there is anything bothering their mate. You both need to know there is not any subject you could not approch one another with. In fact if you don't, over time this will fester in your relationship. It will be like an open wound with a scap that won't heal.
You both need to approch difficult subjects with the right words, as not to be critical.
Even I need to remind myself of this, as I can be to critial. Then Mike gets defensive.
Whatever you have to say, say it with love and compassion for the other person. Everybody has to know if they are doing something that offends or hurts their spouse, or we would never change. This will stop the growth of your marriage.
Judy Cipriano
wife of over 25 years.
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